How to Keep a Hot Boy

Not everyone can have a “Hot Boy” because not everyone can handle one. You see, a hot boy has so many things going for him. For example, he could be ruggedly handsome, fit beyond Olympic standards, and as smart as a whip. These 3 things alone increase the number of women after him by a factor of thirty! So you are competing with a hell of a lot, even when he is safely tucked into your bed at night.

So how do you keep hold of a hot boy?

Well, the only sure way is by looking at who you need to be.

Be Understanding – know your man and all of his ever-changing needs. Just because he liked Jell-O pudding when you met doesn’t mean he wants it indefinitely. A new threat will see who he is now, not who he was way-back-when, so be attentive and ready to change tact at a moment’s notice.

Be Open – strange things happen, things that we don’t expect and think we can never understand, but that is what life is about. If confronted by a weird request or peculiar topic of conversation, don’t panic and run for the hills; simply apply some logic and deal with it, openly.

Be Tough – be prepared to take him on or to take somebody else out of the game if you have to. A hot boy needs to know that his woman can and will take care of herself if necessary and have his back in the process. Look after what you look after and maintain your side of the relationship bargain.

Be Attractive – maintain the beauty that he met you with and do not let yourself go, thinking that with the three kids safely sleeping upstairs your life is set. Not even jelly sets properly, all it takes is for someone to pour some hotness on it, and it quickly dissolves!

Be Alert – realise the enemy out there is you. You know what you would do and what others are capable of so rather than complain about the girl from the deli who favours him and ignores you, focus on what you know about her and take her out of the equation- one time.

Be Different –don’t do what everybody else does around him. If they cater to his every need, then you shouldn’t. Treat him slightly mean to keep him super keen and it will be you whom he loves and respects.

Ladies, with this new knowledge comes great power, and with this power, a great responsibility, so be careful who you share this with!