QUESTION:

I am a young professional woman with an advanced degree; my younger sister has recently dropped out of college with no plans to return and no real goals that I can mention.  How can I inspire her to want more?

ANSWER:

You are looking out for your sister, how good is that? 

How can you inspire your sister to want more? 

Simply put, continue to be who you are. You never know how you inspire others by just being your true and authentic self.

Listen. Your sister may just need an empathic ear.  She may need to talk things out and gain her perspective.

Explore. Ask your sister how you can assist. Offer your help, but don’t try and make her over. You are on your journey. Your sister must create her own path. 

Cheer. Encourage your sister as she moves forward.

Let go. Express your concern with love and affection, then, release your concern. 

Here are some books about personal and career development that might be helpful for you and your sister:

Basic Black: The Essential Guide for Getting Ahead at Work (and in Life)

Media mogul Cathie Black provides straightforward career and life advice in memoir form for the young professional as well as the seasoned expert.

The Personal Touch: What You Really Need to Succeed in Today’s Fast Paced Business World   

Public Relations icon and youth advocate Terrie Williams reminds her readers about how the “little details make a big difference” at work and in life.

After all has been said and done, let your sister meet life on her own terms.  We must all find our way. Let your sister know that you love her and will be there for her through the good and bad times.

Trust your gut.  Sustain the glam.  Maintain your grace.

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