Unleash the Sexy: The Makings of a Memorable Bachelorette Party

One of your closest girls, a top-notch wing-woman, quality party mate, or your Friday night martini partner has taken the plunge. She’s decided to take the marriage leap with her long-time beau! Now, while you’re bummed that you’ll have a little less time with your partner in crime, it’s great that your pal has found the love of her life. This, of course, means that in the middle of helping her plan the wedding of her dreams you’ll need to make sure that her last days of singlehood are celebrated in style and with a touch of sexy. Enter the bachelorette party.

Hitting the bar or giving the future missus a lavish dinner are both conventional ways of celebrating your friend’s last days of being single and carefree, so why not make this night one to remember by spicing it up? Here are a couple of ways you can make this a truly unforgettable night for the bride-to-be.

1. Sex Toy Party. This can be a great way to kick up the sexiness! All it takes is the privacy of someone’s living room and hiring a consultant who will do the demonstrations and have some of the products on hand. Companies such as Passion Parties (http://www.passionparties.com/) specialize not only in developing sexual aids and toys, but also in helping to plan private parties where women can learn about and buy some of these products. This is a perfect way to get a little sex advice and find that next toy for your boudoir.

2. Pole or Lap Dancing. These are becoming increasingly popular, as many more gyms offer them as bona-fide workouts. So turn up the sex appeal and work up a sweat by adding this to your party lineup! Many places offer them as private classes, so get the guests to pool their money together and pay for the cost of a session. Companies such as S Factor (http://www.sfactor.com/) or Flirty Girl Fitness (http://www.flirtification.com/index.asp) have instructors all across the U.S. Besides, the class is bound to be useful for everyone and teach the bride a few moves she can use later on in married life.

3. Games, Games, Games. What is a bachelorette party without games? Scheduling in a few of these is just the trick for adding heat to the night. There are many you can pick up in novelty stores, or you can consider making up some of your own. One sample game you can try: Get a bunch of the attendees to admit some of their craziest sexual escapades and then write them up with no names included. Afterwards, drop them in a hat, mix them up, and have the girls pull them out at random to guess whose story it belongs to. That should make for some fun revelations!

4. Hot Male Dancer. This one is a tradition of the bachelorette party and many would argue that the celebration isn’t quite complete without this ingredient. Of course, even this one requires a bit of planning! If you do choose to have an exotic dancer, consider looking into established companies to hire one, like Chippendales (www.chippendales.com) or Manhattan Men (www.manhattanmen.com). Also, try to get a sense of what kind of guy the bachelorette would like. After all, it is her party. If she’s going to get one more lap dance before taking the plunge, make sure it fulfills her fantasies, too!

The great thing about this kind of party is that there are no real rules to throwing it. Just make sure that fun and memorable are at the top of the agenda. Oh, and don’t forget to visit a novelty store or an online shop like the Bachelorette Party Store (http://www.bachelorettepartystore.com/) or Bachelorette.com (http://www.bachelorette.com/ideasadvice.html) to pick up some fun party favors! What’s a sexy bachelorette party without feather boas, penis candies, crazy shot glasses, and funny blow-up dolls, anyway?